The misunderstanding of the basics of spiritual science, natural science and life is so prevalent today. People should not try to teach others from their own beliefs, beliefs are not real by definition that is why they are beliefs. That which is real does not require your belief for its existence, look at your thumb, it is real, you don’t need to believe in it for it to exist. Just that your ideas/imaginations sound good to your mind does not mean it is real or that you should teach them to others.
Go outside and sit in front of a rock, the rock in front of you is real, if I throw it at your head it will hurt when it hits, it has nothing to do with what you think or imagine. The lump on your noggin will be real. Your thoughts are not real, you do not create reality with your thoughts, you distort your experience of reality with your thoughts. Your thoughts cause your version of reality to be distorted.
You do not see the actual rock in front of you, you see an image based on the electrical impulses that go from your eyes to your brain and then those impulses get projected on to your mind. Your beliefs, karma, stories and fears then color or distort that image to fit your version of life that is particular to you. You see a distorted reality on the mirror of your mind and you think it is real, you think it is you. That is the definition of spiritual ignorance the basis of all your suffering; the misidentification of that which is not you as you.
Is your life complicated? The complication is your distortion, life is very simple, the rock is a rock, you are alive, you are not special but you are unique, everything is unique.
Do you think that life isn’t fair? You created your version of life in your mind; all the limitations you see are your imaginations and beliefs. Until you stop trading one belief for another you will never be free, you will never touch reality. What is fair, does fair exist? Fairness is a concept at best but whether something is fair or not is just a belief. Life is not fair or life is fair, neither is real, it is not that and it is not - not that, as the Buddha taught. Life is not happening to you, you are life itself, it is not about who’s fault it is, whether it is fair or not, it is about living purely and fully engaged with the life that you are.
Do you believe that others are selfish and that they are ignoring you? Lets take a look at that. What are you focused on in that belief? How you feel, what you need, how it is for you, why is it like this for you, how others act in respect to you and your needs, etc… So who is self-centered and selfish, you are the only one in every statement, you are the one who is always looking out for you. If you feel ignored it is because you are ignoring others in your constant focus and attention on yourself. What do you talk about? You! What do you think about? You! It is your mirror that you are looking at and creating in this moment, you are looking at your mirror, the image you see is you, your life, everything you see is in relation to you. It is your selfishness that is driving you mad. For most, this is where you see no way out, so you get ready and make plans to get away, to change your location as if your location is the problem. The real problem is where ever you go, you will still be there; you cannot get away from you. It is time to get some help and find someone who will guide you out of ignorance and into life.